As 2023 comes to an end and we embrace the New Year many of us are eager to set resolutions that will bring positive change to our lives but do you ever think of the things that should not be your New Year resolutions?
Too often we think of the things we should and not the ones we shouldn’t because we have settled for the world as it is and not as it should be. The prospect of a new year might seem daunting, but it’s essential to approach it with a clear and realistic mindset. While setting resolutions is a great way to focus on personal growth, there are certain things that should not be your New Year resolutions especially if you lost your job in 2023.
Here are 5 things that should not be your New Year resolutions if you’ve lost your job.
I will not worry about my finances this year
For God’s sake you lost your job, how are going to live without worrying about your finances? If you are setting this as one of your New Year resolutions then you are simply ignoring realities—the pain that comes with growth is that you have to make peace with realities.
I know it’s important to stay positive but ignoring your financial situation won’t make it disappear. Instead, set realistic financial goals, such as creating a budget, exploring new income sources, and managing expenses effectively. Some individuals normally rephrase managing expenses to spending less—personally I do not think spending less is ideal, earn more instead. If you lost your job find ways of getting more revenue streams. Do not settle!
I will spend more time alone and avoid socializing
As much as in some sick twisted way we all deserve some alone time, I do not advocate for isolating yourself when you just lost your job. Losing a job can be isolating, but cutting off social connections can negatively impact your mental health. Resolve to maintain and strengthen your social support system. Attend networking events, reach out to friends, and stay connected with industry professionals. Things that tend to isolate you from your social network should not be your New Year resolutions.
I will land my dream job in the first month of the year
Well, this is to me not a resolution but a manifestation and in hindsight setting of unrealistic goals. While it’s great to aim high and manifest the best things in life, setting overly optimistic job search expectations can lead to disappointment. If you just lost your job, manifest to chance into any opportunity because too often we don’t land our dream jobs, we just chance into opportunities. Focus on creating a realistic job search strategy, setting achievable milestones, and staying persistent in your efforts.
I will prioritize my job search over everything
Job hunting is essential, but putting it ahead of everything including yourself can lead to burnout. Make self-care a priority by setting resolutions related to maintaining a healthy work-life balance, exercising regularly, and practicing mindfulness.
I will focus solely on finding a new job, nothing else.
Well, if being an entrepreneur ever crossed your mind, this should not be your New Year resolutions. Simply focusing on finding a new job alone is just too inadequate for someone who wants to be his/her own boss. Finding a new job could be your priority because you just lost one and you are probably confused but don’t neglect personal growth—it could the time you reflect and find your true self. I advise you resolve to pursue hobbies, read business books, watch documentaries, attend seminars, engage in activities you enjoy, and explore new interests. This can not only enhance your overall well-being but also make you a more well-rounded and appealing candidate to potential employers.
Approaching the New Year with a realistic and positive mindset is crucial, especially when you just lost your job. These five things that should not be your New Year resolutions do not set you back but help you grow and embrace those resolutions that promote well-being and professional development.
